Atheists were you always sarcastic, hateful and bitter before you became a atheist ?

I am not talking about all atheists because I have met a crumb full of atheists who have pretty cool attitude. But 90 percent of the atheists who answer questions on here are bitter, sarcastic, very hateful. I just want to know why. I have posted some questions on here that weren't even directed at you folks and you come in writing some nasty comments. I wrote some things to understand you and you come in writing some nasty comments. For those who do things like that. You remind of when I use to live in Baltimore, and had to deal with the racist jerks who would scream racist slanders out the car window but would never step foot outside of the car when coming to a light. See my attitude is this. Most of you like hurting people with words. I like hurting people who hurt people with their words with my fist. Talk is cheap and all it does is lead up to more talk. I'm not all into that sarcastic, bitter talk. There is a limitation with how I'm going to let you talk to me. I will bend over backwards to help anyone out, but to talk to me anyway you want, just because you ume I'm going to take it. WRONG. So can you cut it out with the sarcastic, and hateful talk?